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My response to the nastiest OKCupid message I've ever received
But once in a while I give it a try, just to see what happens. Recently, I made an OkCupid profile. I wasn't finding any good conversations or connections, but I stuck with it because hey, you never know. But as we've seen in one viral story after another, it is not easy for women on dating apps (or social media in general) to avoid being berated. Like any woman on one of these apps, I got a significant amount of comments about my appearance and a lot of extremely forward, sexual messages. But I've also gotten other kinds of messages that directly address my character.